<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Theresa Shan | Lumen]]></title><description><![CDATA[Leadership & Business Transformation Partner]]></description><link>https://www.theresashan.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 13:11:54 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.theresashan.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[You Know What You Did]]></title><description><![CDATA[You don’t know why it bothers you so much when people don’t see what you’ve done. You think about all the effort you’ve poured into their businesses and brands; the days, nights, weekends when the work lived in your head, taking up space. You came in with good intentions, trying to make things better than when you began. And yet, somehow, the only thing they can focus on is what hasn’t “landed” yet. Why? Of course, things can always improve. And shareholders will always want to see more. But...]]></description><link>https://www.theresashan.com/post/you-know-what-you-did</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2bc241ac42b101a9d370a3</guid><category><![CDATA[Reflections]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 08:27:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/b91415_ef331707224e4a2a820849e2dd16edd2~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_753,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Theresa Shan</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Learning To Receive]]></title><description><![CDATA[There’s one more thing that is hard for women in particular: it requires us to stop giving and start receiving. And receiving whether that’s help, recognition, support, or just stillness, can feel deeply uncomfortable. We’ve been taught that our value lives in our output. In how much we give, do, and hold together. But here’s what I’ve learned: the façade of having it all together isn’t strength. It’s separation. The moment I admitted I couldn’t do it all, that I needed help, that I didn’t...]]></description><link>https://www.theresashan.com/post/learning-to-receive</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2bc09516a9a8229e04ada5</guid><category><![CDATA[Leadership]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 08:19:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/nsplsh_31efeaef553940269f586a674a363f9a~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Theresa Shan</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Shut Up, And Listen]]></title><description><![CDATA[Here’s something worth asking yourself honestly: are you always the one talking in meetings? Because stillness isn’t just personal, it changes the dynamic of your entire team. You don’t need to be the loudest voice in the room to be respected. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do as a leader is create space and let others fill it. Your calm creates safety. Your silence gives others permission to speak. I’ve led teams in Asia where the cultural default is to defer to leadership, to...]]></description><link>https://www.theresashan.com/post/shut-up-and-listen</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2b96d3418318a8f7e0657b</guid><category><![CDATA[Leadership]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 05:21:35 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/b91415_74121588a48e4c72b5ace2852fa7ec81~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_683,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Theresa Shan</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Rest Is Not A Reward, It's A Strategy]]></title><description><![CDATA[Let me say something that might feel uncomfortable. Rest is not something you earn. It’s not the prize waiting for you on the other side of the milestone, the big launch, or the financial target. It’s not for when you’ve “made it.” Rest is not a reward. It’s a necessity. And for most of us in leadership, it’s the most underused tool we have. I know, because I learned this the hard way. The five-year mistake When I was building my business, I went five years without a proper pause. No real...]]></description><link>https://www.theresashan.com/post/rest-is-not-a-reward-it-s-a-strategy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2b966e44c7bef1d02c939e</guid><category><![CDATA[Leadership]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 05:18:23 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_b00c3bdd2d7046b1a578bf3195032184~mv2_d_3500_2333_s_2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Theresa Shan</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Leadership Nobody Taught You]]></title><description><![CDATA[We were taught that leadership looks a certain way. Assertive. Sharp. Decisive. Loud. We were handed blueprints built on dominance over discernment, speed over reflection, achievement over peace. The message was clear: to lead, you must override your natural rhythms. Suppress your emotions. Push beyond your limits. Prioritise logic over feeling. And when we tried — when we showed up exactly as we were told — we were still told we were too much. Or not enough. What if that wasn’t a you...]]></description><link>https://www.theresashan.com/post/the-leadership-nobody-taught-you</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a2b90e716a9a8229e04065a</guid><category><![CDATA[Leadership]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 04:55:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/b91415_0e372625d2d24cc69206202773bce0e4~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_683,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Theresa Shan</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>